WHO ARE YOU
When Joseph-Nicephore Niepce took the first photograph in 1828, his photographic plate required an exposure of eight hours. That exposure time was drastically reduced across the course of the nineteenth century, so that by the 1890s the Collodion process had cut exposure times to two or three seconds.
Nevertheless, a three second exposure meant that subjects had to stand very still to avoid being blurred, and holding a smile for that period was tricky. As a result, we have a tendency to see our Victorian ancestors as even more formal and stern than they might have been.
These pictures are drawn from the Flickr group “The Smiling Victorian” and show a perhaps surprising side to the people who’s “now” was a hundred years before our own.
This reminds me of a B.A. thesis a friend of mine is currently writing on the “Invention” of Victorianism by Modernist writers in the early 20th century.
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“I want a woman who can sit me down, shut me up, tell me ten things I don’t already know, and make me laugh. I don’t care what you look like, just turn me on. And if you can do that, I will follow you on bloody stumps through the snow. I will nibble your mukluks with my own teeth. I will do your windows. I will care about your feelings. Just have something in there.” - Henry Rollins
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I believed that I wanted to be a poet, but deep down I just wanted to be a poem.
I said, I want to tell you something. She said, you can tell me tomorrow. I had never told her how much I loved her. She was my sister. We slept in the same bed. There was never a right time to say it. It was always unnecessary. The books in my father’s shed were sighing. The sheets were rising and falling around me with Anna’s breathing. I thought about waking her. But it was unnecessary. There would be other nights. And how can you say I love you to someone you love? I rolled onto my side and fell asleep next to her. Here is the point of everything I have been trying to tell you… it’s always necessary.
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n. the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own—populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness—an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep…
It is easy to forget how full the world is of people, full to bursting, and each of them imaginable and consistently misimagined.
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truths
i can’t sleep when it’s hot. i hate sharing my bed. i love reading. tadpoles gross me out. my biggest fear is of my dad dying. i am magnificently mistrustful of women. i do not believe in the institution of marriage. i dream of watching my dad meet his first grandchild. i am so in love with the tallest man on earth. i love having my nails painted. i love architecture. old buildings, especially. i am extremely uncomfortable in my body. i’m scared to go back to school. i would love to travel. i have one tattoo, and i hate how people react to it. i feel so bad for my mom. i have very inconsistent handwriting. i love singing. i have stretch marks. i shop when i’m unhappy or stressed out. i like to read obituaries.
Progress (Taken with instagram)
“try a little tenderness as painful as it seems” by ben skinner
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